We’ve been getting a lot of questions about our wedding- where did you find your decor and ideas? What food did you have? How did you execute your whole Larkin Square vision? So we’re gonna start sharing our details from our big day in different posts so you can gather some ideas or just read for fun!
Next up: our Wedding Music Playlist.
There is nothing more exciting than seeing a packed dance floor filled with family & friends dancing their butts off non-stop at your wedding. As a serial wedding guest, I’ve noticed that this doesn’t happen too often. Typical wedding music changes over the decades- the fun has gone from the Chicken Dance to the Macarena to the Wobble. Some people like to keep things ‘traditional’…but us? Nope. We wanted people to be surprised, excited, and to dance their pants off. The first part of the night began with the Hot Club of Buffalo performing live on the Larkin stage. They played during our cocktail hour to set a fun vibe- once they ended, the playlist began.
Goal: to have our playlist to represent us- as children, young adults, and now old millennials. The stuff that made our memories. The stuff that evokes unforgettable stories. So instead of having a DJ, we did something a little different- I mixed a non-stop playlist filled with all of the music we loved and that meant something to us. (fun fact: I used to DJ when I lived in North Carolina- but that’s another type of blog!)
Step One: Choosing the Songs
I had an idea- let’s break it in to mini-playlists, complete with tracks to make you jump up and down and some slow jamz to give you all the feels. Each was a perfectly planned mix, segueing in to one another and each ending with a couple slower tunes to cool you down. We made a huge list of song that spanned decades and genres. We wanted our friends to feel like they were back at those middle and high school dances- ‘the best decade of music ever’. (hello, the 90s) Both Beau and I have a taste in music that is all over the map so it was easy to determine which songs HAD to stay. Plus we had songs in there that were specifically put in for people we loved. We did all of the deciding at a random Starbucks five months before the wedding.
Step Two: Setting the Mood
Music is in my blood. As a classically trained flutist, Ethnomusicologist, and instructor of World Music at Mercyhurst University- conjuring emotions with music is my number one goal. Naturally, this happened when I started organizing and outlining which songs. I also took in to consideration the BPM’s for each song and how we could mix them to flow in to one another. Each song had about 2-4 minutes of play time before it segued in to something different. We crossed decades and genres- and it was the bomb.
After mixing and remixing, the playlists were done and loaded on to an iPod. Sound check at Larkin? Done. Volume up loud? Done. Dance floor packed? Done. We will never forget seeing everyone get so excited over Biggie, Benny Benassi, and the Dirty Dancing theme. You would never believe how many people were doing ‘the lift’.
Here are the sets and the music we had. Don’t ya wish you were there?! :
Having our playlist represent us as individuals growing up in the 90s and 00s, it also resonated with our guests. We snuck in a few songs that were just for ‘us’ (Pink Martini for my Dad & I…Bob Seger for Beau’s Mom…Bingo Players for Beau…Balkan Beat Box for me…Billie Holiday tune from ‘The Notebook’ cause romance…etc..) and sometimes it gave people a break to get another prosecco or taco at Lloyd. Our best advice is to create your own list of songs- and take it seriously. If you really want to have your party music to top off the night in a big way, make it your own. You’ll have more fun and your guests will never forget it.